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I LIVED WEARING A BLINDFOLD

Posted on November 19, 2013 by Judy

Living with a blindfold and making no sound allowed me to stay married for 31 years. I was blind to things that upset me and chose to avoid conflict as much as possible. Continue reading →

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WHEN FALL WOULD COME, FOR YEARS I WAS NUMB

Posted on November 5, 2013 by Judy

I decided that even though on the surface I appeared peaceful, I was also quite numb. Despite the fogginess of vision that I found discouraging, there was no end to beauty and inspiration in my life. Performing required a great deal of courage for me. It was time to see if I could take off the mask . . . Continue reading →

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THE UNKNOWN-PART 1

Posted on September 21, 2013 by Judy

My song, “The Unknown” changed my life. A good friend gave my song another name: “The F.U. song.” Continue reading →

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THIS FEELS SO WRONG

Posted on September 14, 2013 by Judy

My post title is a line of lyrics from my song “The Unknown.” My song changed the direction of my life because it led me to divorce my husband after 31 years of marriage. Continue reading →