Tag Archives: writing

HOW WE DON’T CARE – PART 2

Posted on February 17, 2014 by Judy

It was my music and songs that caused my heart to stir again with feeling. And when my parents faded from my life, I did not want to accept numbness anymore. My children did not require, nor benefit from my constant devotion either. It was the discovery of my self-worth that gave me the courage to change my life. Continue reading →

Tagged acoustic guitar, adjusting to divorce, arranging music, avoiding conflict, childhood friendship, communication, composing, composing music, coping with divorce, creativity, distance in a relationship, escape through music, facing divorce after a long marriage, feeling numb, Friendship, friendship rifts, gray divorce, guitar, healing music, hiding feelings, How we don't care, impending divorce, inspiration, Judy Unger, lack of communication, loss, lovesong, lyric development, lyric writing, lyrics, Music, music as therapy, not feeling, Ordinary Life, original songs, poor communication, Pretending not to care, separation, singing, songwriting, suppressing feelings, suppressing tears, WE DON’T CARE, writing | Leave a comment

REMEMBERING SUSAN – PART 3

Posted on February 14, 2014 by Judy

In two days it will be the 4th anniversary of my blog. I celebrate four amazing years where my life completely turned around! Continue reading →

Tagged acceptance of loss, Aging Parents, Beginning a blog, blogger, blogging, burden of caregiving, Caregiving, caregiving responsibilities, childhood friendship, coping with grief, death, death of a close friend, death of a friend, dementia, Dr. Sam, friend's support, Friendship, friendship and loss, grief, GRIEF RELATED, I'm Taking Off, inspiration, loss, loss of a good friend, mother, mother daughter relationship, mother's illness, old boyfriend, releasing pain through writing, siblings and caregiving, Susan Rasky, therapeutic writing, writing | 6 Comments

MY SHINING STAR-PART 1

Posted on January 26, 2014 by Judy

I dedicate my song to anyone with a broken heart, longing for someone they love. Continue reading →

Posted in Healing and Hope | Tagged acoustic guitar, composing, creativity, grief, Grief and Bereavement, grief bereavement "Loss of a Child", GRIEF RELATED, guitar, haunting melody, having hope, healing from grief, healing music, hope, hope of healing, hopeful and optimistic, hopelessness, I hear your voice, I'll hold onto our dream forever, in my heart, inspiration, Judy Unger, longing for love, loss, loss of a mom, love, lovesong, lyric development, lyric writing, lyrics, maintaining hope, Music, music and healing, my shining star, optimism, original songs, performing, projecting love, sadness, shining star, singing, song, song arrangement, songwriter, songwriting, the stars above, uplifting music, writing | 2 Comments

I HEAR YOUR VOICE INSIDE MY HEAD

Posted on January 19, 2014 by Judy

Grief was all about love for me. My song poured forth and dazzled me with its beauty. But it held another meaning for me that I did not expect . . . Continue reading →