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AT THIS VERY MOMENT

Posted on October 13, 2021 by Judy

I celebrate many things. At the top of my list is my health. I can see well enough to drive, paint and play tennis. I can sing my heart out to a loving audience anytime I want to. I have amazing children whom I adore. All three are close to me, despite the physical distance with two of them. My deceased son, Jason, continues to live on in my music and songs. Continue reading →

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AMONG HER TREASURED MEMORIES

Posted on May 27, 2021 by Judy

Treasured memories sustain me and my sweet story is filled with metaphors. Camellia flowers remind me of my beautiful blossoming daughter. The life cycle of hummingbirds are touching, as I watch my three children spread their wings and fly. It is simply a joy to share my heart musings, imagery and songs. Continue reading →

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SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU – PART 3

Posted on February 11, 2020 by Judy

Beyond the love I have for my children, I am practicing self-love. My devotion to following my passion is a gift I have given myself. I am overjoyed that my songs and words have comforted and touched so many people. I have found my way home because of music. The love in my heart takes me there. Continue reading →

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DON’T HURRY, TAKE IT SLOW

Posted on February 26, 2017 by Judy

I pride myself for being a heartfelt writer, but writing a profile on a dating site is far different than writing for my blog. Continue reading →

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WATCHING YOU GROW-PART 2

Posted on May 8, 2016 by Judy

I am 56 years old and strive to take baby steps toward growth every single day of my life. Continue reading →

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SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU – PART 2

Posted on November 21, 2015 by Judy

I wrote a song just about three days ago. It’s the only thing I can hear. So I’m going to play it. When I heard the music to it – it was a love song, for sure. And I haven’t had a romantic relationship in so long. How could I write a love song? So I did! I wrote a love song to my children because I love them so much. Continue reading →

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SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU – PART 1

Posted on November 18, 2015 by Judy

I know that this was what my parents wanted for me, which also makes me cry. Continue reading →

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NO ORDINARY PRINCESS – PART 4

Posted on December 22, 2014 by Judy

Suddenly, there was a loud knock at my door. It was my youngest son! I shouted, “DO NOT COME IN!” Continue reading →

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HOW MUCH I CARE

Posted on December 15, 2014 by Judy

My friend, Cheryl, inspired my song “Just a Tune” and I really miss her (she died in 2008.) I am sharing some stories about the feelings behind my song, which I recently created a new arrangement for. Continue reading →

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ONLY A DREAM

Posted on November 24, 2014 by Judy

I am a passionate singer/songwriter following my dream. During the years when I did not have any music in my life, it was only a dream. Continue reading →