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SEEING YOU SOMEDAY
Posted on April 5, 2014 by Judy
If my song comforts another person, I always feel blessed. Continue reading →
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HOW CAN I BELIEVE?
Posted on January 7, 2013 by Judy
You will not hear me say, “Time heals.” I have said that hearts do heal and it happens unconsciously. I have said that joy is possible. That is not the same thing. Believe it or not, although time lends some anesthesia to the gut-wrenching pain – for those that succumb to grief it is too late. Grief actually wrecks lives and destroys a persons’ health over time. Healing from grief is torturous hard work. Most people don’t believe they will heal and I was one of those people. Healing isn’t about fixing anything so that’s it goes back to how it was. There are scars forever. And nothing heals when it festers either. In my fourth year of bereavement I wrote: How can my heart ever heal when it continues to bleed? The answer was that it couldn’t! Continue reading →
Posted in Grief Stories | Tagged child's death, compassionate friends, death, death after a long marriage, death of a child, death of a spouse, Friendship, grief, grief and optimism, grief bereavement "Loss of a Child", grief Friendship, GRIEF RELATED, healing from grief, hope, hopelessness, inspiration, loss, loss of a husband, loss of a spouse, loss of a wife, love, lyric development, maintaining hope, Music, optimism, original songs, relationships, sadness, songwriting, widow, widower, writing | Leave a comment
I’LL LIVE WITHIN MY BROKEN HEART
Posted on January 3, 2013 by Judy
I have written before that everyone handles his or her own grief differently. Now, I want to share my own personal beliefs about grief:
It is not recoverable; one adjusts to it.
Healing is possible, and maintaining hope of it can provide sustenance. But the process of healing is uncconscious and happens despite certainty that grief is endless.
Many, many people succumb to their grief.
Grieving is hard work and consumes one’s existence.
Although it is rare, it is possible to find joy again. But finding it is a conscious effort and requires giving oneself permission to be happy. Continue reading →
Posted in Grief Stories | Tagged acoustic guitar, Art and Illustration, autumn leaves, broken heart, child's death, composing, creativity, death, death of a child, Friendship, grief, grief and optimism, grief bereavement "Loss of a Child", GRIEF RELATED, guitar, healing a broken heart, healing from grief, hopeful and optimistic, hopelessness, inspiration, loss, loss of a husband, loss of a spouse, loss of a wife, lovesong, lyric development, lyric writing, lyrics, maintaining hope, Music, optimism, original songs, performing, singing, songwriting, unresolved grief, widow, widower | 2 Comments
YOU HAVE NO HOPE
Posted on December 30, 2012 by Judy
It seemed that she had a lot more to say on the topic of optimism and grief. The post was named Killing Optimism. Her words were searing and the amputation of her soul was complete. It made me realize how foolish grief comparisons were between the loss of a child versus a soul mate. Clearly her amputated soul was nothing I would ever want to measure. Continue reading →
Posted in Grief Stories | Tagged child's death, death, death of a spouse, divorce, divorce after a long marriage, divorce and grief, Friendship, gray divorce, grief, grief and optimism, grief bereavement "Loss of a Child", GRIEF RELATED, healing from grief, hope, hopelessness, inspiration, loss, loss of a husband, loss of a spouse, loss of a wife, love, maintaining hope, optimism, relationships, sadness, separation, separation and divorce, widow, widower, writing | 4 Comments