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MEANT TO ME – PART 2

Posted on December 20, 2013 by Judy

Today I signed a final agreement resolving all issues related to my divorce after 31 years of marriage. The divorce will become final after 30-60 days. Continue reading →

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WHEN THE SHEETS ARE STILL

Posted on December 18, 2013 by Judy

Soon she would be facing him. She clung to the edge of her bed and dreamed of when it would finally all be over. Continue reading →

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I SEE A RAINBOW THROUGH MY TEARS

Posted on December 10, 2013 by Judy

The rainbow through my tears was something I had seen before. It was important for me to remember that even if I wasn’t seeing it at the moment. Continue reading →

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I LIVED WEARING A BLINDFOLD

Posted on November 19, 2013 by Judy

Living with a blindfold and making no sound allowed me to stay married for 31 years. I was blind to things that upset me and chose to avoid conflict as much as possible. Continue reading →