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HOW WE DON’T CARE – PART 2

Posted on February 17, 2014 by Judy

It was my music and songs that caused my heart to stir again with feeling. And when my parents faded from my life, I did not want to accept numbness anymore. My children did not require, nor benefit from my constant devotion either. It was the discovery of my self-worth that gave me the courage to change my life. Continue reading →

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REMEMBERING SUSAN – PART 3

Posted on February 14, 2014 by Judy

In two days it will be the 4th anniversary of my blog. I celebrate four amazing years where my life completely turned around! Continue reading →

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REMEMBERING SUSAN – PART 2

Posted on February 13, 2014 by Judy

Susan’s messages tell my story in a beautiful way and I will never forget her wisdom and love. Continue reading →

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REMEMBERING SUSAN – PART 1

Posted on February 12, 2014 by Judy

I will be playing a song with my guitar to honor Susan at the memorial service. It’s going to be hard for me to sing without crying. Continue reading →