structure allowing passage across obstacle, link or means of approach, linking piece of music
bridge (transitive verb)
build bridge across something, create understanding
Connection, conduit, link, tie, association, channel, passage, join
Although I am a passionate songwriter, I find the process of writing lyrics to be very draining. They erupt from me and the energy behind them is very contracted. Perhaps heartfelt words are deeply embedded because of my habit of denying my feelings for many years.
Beautiful music inspires me to write lyrics. The melody tugs at my subconscious and helps me to find lyrics that are honest.
For my last two songs, my arranger George worked with me to create bridges for songs that didn’t have one before that.
Each time, I wasn’t thrilled about it because I didn’t want to write those additional lyrics and melody. I wasn’t confident about whether I’d come up with anything good enough.
The truth was that inside my head I was literally “kicking and screaming” and even considered making those “change-up chord” areas a musical solo because that would take the heat off of me.
Every time I sang my song, I could feel the music swelling. A solo wouldn’t add meaning, so I knew I had to add words. And those passages needed words that would have an impact because I was making a final statement to sum up my song’s meaning just before the climax.
I couldn’t sing vocals for my new arrangements until I wrote those bridges, so I was very motivated.
The whole process was very meaningful and it propelled both songs into a more touching and spiritual place for me.
My new arrangements with those bridges can be heard by following these links to the original stories:
Story behind ANGEL IN THE SKY-PART 1
Story behind JUST A TUNE-PART 1
When I wrote the new bridge for “Angel in the Sky #2” last month, I had to truly face denial of feelings with the words of “I still cry.” Those words caused inner conflict for me because I have been very positive that I have healed from grief. But with that admission I found clarity and it also added a lot more emotion to my vocal.
For certain, I know that tears are healthy. I can still cry and believe in healing.
Then last week, I finally wrote the bridge for “Just a Tune #2.” It was amazing for me how those few lines just summed it up. They were so simple!
“More about how much I care”
I came to my hypnotherapy session filled with musical joy. I was bursting and beaming because I loved my latest song, “Just a Tune.” I told my therapist, Connie that I had finally written the bridge and the day before I had recorded a vocal for it.
I celebrated with her how things were going better for me. Connie had certainly witnessed and played a part in my transformation to becoming “my own best friend.”
Initially, I felt unsure about my song’s theme of finding love again. How could I find love again if I wasn’t open to a romantic relationship?
I didn’t need to find love again because love had never left me; I always felt love for my children and parents.
Everything changed when I embraced the theme of self-love. When I became my own best friend; it changed my life. I was whole and stopped looking for approval from other people.
I wasn’t responsible for anyone else’s happiness – only my own.
Part of the reason I loved the new arrangement for “Just a Tune,” was because there were a few small chord changes. The whole process of being open to changing chords is another story, but Connie picked up on that.
If three new chords could make a difference to my song, wasn’t that another great analogy for my life?
Sometimes, small changes truly can make a difference.
The simplest way for me to change anything always started with changing my thoughts. It was an ongoing exercise.
A few weeks earlier, my sessions revolved around my frustration that my ex-husband was moving to another country in six months and was uninvolved with his children.
Once he moved away, I would be responsible for all of my 18-year-old son’s expenses. I helped all three of my children financially and this issue had me seething with the unfairness. Through hypnotherapy, I wanted to turn this around.
Instead of placing my energy upon what my ex-husband wasn’t doing, I congratulated myself for the being there for my children. My new motto became: “I care.”
How interesting that my latest song had a prominent lyric line of “You’ve shown me how to care!”
The word “care” had another special meaning for me; it was a wonderful replacement word for responsible. When my parents were sick and declining, feeling responsible for them filled me with pressure.
Caring takes away pressure. It allows me to see everything as an expression of my love. Love is healing and that is where I want to go!
“That moment when . . .”
Those three words above are lyrics in my song “Just a Tune.” They represent an “a-ha” moment.
I was under hypnosis now. Connie asked me if there was anything I could let go of. There were plenty of things I thought of – I had a lot of stress over small things and physical ailments. I wanted to maintain my healthier track and lose weight, but food was starting to comfort me again.
Just like chord changes – I wondered what small steps I could take to get back on track. Of ways that I could show caring to myself!
Then I remembered my challenge to write those two recent bridges. It was something I desperately wanted but couldn’t force. I really had to let go for that.
That was when I began to think about a bridge being a metaphor for my life. As thoughts formed, I felt very inspired.
With enthusiasm I blurted out, “Connie, you know, a bridge is a transition. It takes the second chorus to the third chorus and allows the song to build in a magnificent way. It’s a brief passage, but that connection is very important because it pulls everything together.
And that moment was when it clicked and I said, “You know – I’m in transition!”
The thoughts continued to rapidly shoot through me. Certainly my past was deeply linked to my present. My new life was filled with adjustment and all of it was a link to my future. I hadn’t reached the “last chorus.”
So, the best was yet to come for me!
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the timing of this is perfect! a New Year and a New way of thinking of things:) i am so happy for you and i hope you know what an inspiration you are!! sending love and hugs to you my friend
I’m thankful for having you in this new year, Sandra. You are such a blessing and gift to me. I think of you and Chris often and treasure every message you write to me. Sending love.