Author Archives: Judy

About Judy

I'm an illustrator by profession. At this juncture in my life, I am pursuing my dream of writing and composing music. Every day of my life is precious!

WITH THE PASSAGE OF YEARS

Posted on August 5, 2010 by Judy

Yesterday was quite joyous for me as I recorded a very special song, “Only Tears.” I was very happy with the way I sang it, as well as the arrangement. In a few days, it will be Cheryl’s birthday. She died in February of 2008 from breast cancer. I have wondered what songs I might write once I’ve finished “unloading” all my former musical compositions of my youth. It was huge for me that I sat down and wrote new lyrics a week ago. I wrote a completely new, last verse for Only Tears. Continue reading →

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I’VE LIVED AMIDST BROKEN HEARTS

Posted on August 4, 2010 by Judy

Although I am tired, I want to write about my lunch today seeing Lori and Allison. Both women looked absolutely wonderful; neither had changed at all – in fact all three of us looked radiant in comparison to those times where we carried the heavy load of grief. We all agreed that uncertainty made our lives precious indeed. We all talked about how keenly sensitive we were to other peoples’ tragedies, and how easy it was to absorb that pain. As we parted, we all agreed that it would not be another twelve years until we met again. Continue reading →

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BEFORE ZOMBIELAND

Posted on August 3, 2010 by Judy

Before I rediscovered music, and joy, I was in “Zombieland” for many years. Zombieland represented an existence for me of “no feeling.” There was little heartache or tears, and certainly no joy. My energy was completely extended into coping with whatever situation I was facing, and was about survival. I accepted that existence for a very, long time. There was a reason for that. Before Zombieland, it was much worse. Zombieland might have been a numbing existence, but before Zombieland it was agony!
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JUDY UNGER’S ROADSHOW

Posted on August 2, 2010 by Judy

I think my live performances are getting better; studio recording is truly an art in itself. My arranger, George, is very talented at adding instrumental accompaniment to my songs. I love the effect. I wish I were a better singer; but I have improved a lot. It’s fun sharing with you. Wish me luck; tonight I’m performing at the Sherman Oaks Border’s! Continue reading →