Author Archives: Judy

About Judy

I'm an illustrator by profession. At this juncture in my life, I am pursuing my dream of writing and composing music. Every day of my life is precious!

WHAT WE HAD IS STILL SPECIAL TO ME

Posted on October 26, 2010 by Judy

Here is a window into how it feels to flash forward so many years and memories later. On this post I am sharing some of our correspondence. I’ve edited out personal information about his family, so that might explain why it might seem one-sided. The post title is from my song’s lyrics, “You’re Not the One,” which was written for Sam. Continue reading →

Tagged acoustic guitar, childhood friendship, dating memories, Friendship, high school memories, memories of high school, Music, old boyfriend, original songs, performing, songwriting, writing | 2 Comments

SONG OF JOY-PART 1

Posted on October 24, 2010 by Judy

Today I recorded the song from my wedding. It is now a new song with a new title. I assumed it would be called “Song of Joy,” and named it as such up until today. However, as I was singing it a more poignant title came to me – “Together.” Continue reading →

Tagged acoustic guitar, Biblical wedding song, composing, creativity, guitar, healing music, inspiration, Jewish wedding song, Judy Unger, lovesong, lyric development, lyric writing, lyrics, marriage, marriage ceremony, Music, original songs, performing, Shevah Brachot, singing, Song for a Jewish wedding, Song of Joy, songwriting, Together, wedding, wedding song, writing | 1 Comment

A BEAUTIFUL START

Posted on October 23, 2010 by Judy

When I got married, I certainly embraced the ”romantic love concept.” All of my songs and writing were so innocent. I was very immature. I have wondered for many months whether I would be able to share what I am about to. If I could share how I felt when I saw my dead son’s body, I decided I could share this.
I was actually married six months before my wedding. It was not a fabulous, passionate elopement kind of thing. It was actually quite traumatic.
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Tagged "sandwich generation", Aging Parents, being a virgin, beliefs about virginity, Caregiving, engagement, family secrets, forced marriage, forced wedding, grief bereavement "Loss of a Child", GRIEF RELATED, Hypnotherapy, loss, mother, mother daughter relationship, parenting, responsibility, wedding memories | Leave a comment

I LOOK BACK AND REMEMBER THE FUN

Posted on October 21, 2010 by Judy

Each time I record a song, I am transported back to how I felt when I wrote it. Lately, I’ve felt like I’m back in high school! I enjoyed recording “Autumn Recollections and Alone,” because the songs were so different from my other songs. Tonight, I was a little bit shaken by a comment on my blog from my first boyfriend, Sam.
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